The Life You Don’t Want…Until You Do

Let me get this out of the way first: I am NOT ready to get married yet. I don’t know if I want kids. Sometimes I think I’d prefer the ring over the husband. I’m open to the idea that I might “change my mind about all of this in a bit,” but right now, …

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The Art Of The Focused Hustle

Back in the day, people kept their side hustle a secret. In fact, the word “hustle”  seemed to be a bad word that was reserved for select groups of people (usually with a negative connotation). Now, everyone has a side gig. Hustling has become the new black. No doubt, the effed up economy had something …

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When Do You Let Baby “Bump” Your Career?

When my BFF heard the news about Beyonce’s pregnancy, she instantly got excited. But not really for Beyonce.  No, she got excited…for ME. “Ummm….what?” She explained her logic by saying that this gave her hope that one day I might put a baby on my priority list. Something akin to me seeing the ultimate career …

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Is Fear of Disappointing Your Parents Stopping You From Living Your Life?

First, a story: Two Gen Y’ers are having a drink at a local restaurant.  Well, one Gen Y’er is. The other one was lured in by the smell of fried chicken. While munching on crispy, fried goodness and sipping a cool ale, respectively, the two twenty-somethings strike up a friendly conversation which (naturally) turns into …

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